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    <title>lunatechian (lunatech-ian)  - My take on life</title>
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    <title>What would you like to hear about</title>
    <link>http://rajshekhar.net/blog/archives/289-What-would-you-like-to-hear-about.html</link>
            <category>My take on life</category>
    
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    I am trying to become a regular blogger.  If you are regular reader, can you take a few minutes to vote for your &lt;a href=&quot;http://rajshekhar.net/blog/index.php?serendipity[subpage]=votearchive&quot;  title=&quot;preferred topic&quot;&gt;preferred topic&lt;/a&gt;?  
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    <pubDate>Sun, 09 Mar 2008 06:09:55 +0100</pubDate>
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    <title>Third anniversary at Yahoo!</title>
    <link>http://rajshekhar.net/blog/archives/288-Third-anniversary-at-Yahoo!.html</link>
            <category>My take on life</category>
            <category>work</category>
    
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    &lt;p&gt;Today I completed 3 years at Yahoo! Bangalore.  Thanks to &lt;a href=&#039;http://t3.dotgnu.info/blog/yblr/three-years-in-yahoo.html&#039;&gt;t3rminator&lt;/a&gt; for reminding me the happy occasion (t3 had joined a day before I did). &lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;Thanks to &lt;a href=&quot;http://spo0nman.livejournal.com/&quot;&gt;great&lt;/a&gt; teammates, &lt;a href=&quot;http://t3.dotgnu.info/blog&quot;&gt;partners&lt;/a&gt; &lt;a href=&quot;http://teemus.livejournal.com/&quot;&gt;in&lt;/a&gt;  &lt;a href=&quot;http://developers.slashdot.org/article.pl?sid=07/04/01/176239&quot;&gt;crime&lt;/a&gt; and mentors for making this day possible.&lt;/p&gt;
 
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    <pubDate>Sat, 01 Mar 2008 06:22:00 +0100</pubDate>
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    <title>visa interview in Chennai</title>
    <link>http://rajshekhar.net/blog/archives/220-visa-interview-in-Chennai.html</link>
            <category>My take on life</category>
            <category>work</category>
    
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    &lt;p&gt;Yesterday I had to go to Chennai for my US visa interview. Chennai is
a really sucky city, it sucks even worse than Bangalore &lt;img src=&quot;http://rajshekhar.net/blog/templates/default/img/emoticons/smile.png&quot; alt=&quot;:-)&quot; style=&quot;display: inline; vertical-align: bottom;&quot; class=&quot;emoticon&quot; /&gt; .  Here is
an account of the process.&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Documents required&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;The &lt;a href=&quot;https://www.vfs-usa.co.in/Home.aspx&quot;&gt;vfs-usa.co.in&lt;/a&gt; site has a list of documents that you require to
bring along with you.  If you filled the visa form at the
vfs-usa.co.in site, you would have received a printout of the forms
D156, D157 and an appointment letter mentioning the data and time of
your visa interview.&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;I had packed in all the required documents the night
prior to my departure to Chennai.  Due to security concerns you are
not allowed to carry mobile, CDs, music player or any electronic
device into the consulate building.  However, you are allowed to carry
books and one polybag with all your documents inside.  These people
are really serious about security - do not bring any stuff which is
prohibited.  You will not be allowed to carry it inside no matter
what.&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;Since books were not on their &lt;em&gt;Do not carry&lt;/em&gt; list, I took along a
printout of the &lt;em&gt;MySQL Internals&lt;/em&gt; manual for my &lt;em&gt;inflight entertainment&lt;/em&gt;.&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Reaching there&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;The American consulate is located in Anna Salai.  Once you get down at
the airport, you will find a government operated prepaid taxi counter
there.  They will charge you 240 Rs. (rupees) for a taxi to the
American consulate.  The people manning the counter were able to
understand  english.&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;Since I was returning back to Bangalore the same day, I had not made
any reservations in a hotel for my stay.  The taxi driver knew the
place and he dropped me infront of the consulate gate.  The guards
there guided me to the gate through which the visa interviewees had to
pass.&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Passing time&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;I reached the consulate by 0900 though my interview was at 1230.
There was a average sized queue at the gate.  I liked the queue
managment system at the Chennai consulate.  The guards called out the
interview time that was mentioned in the appointment letter and people
who were scheduled at that time moved ahead in the queue.  Since my
interview was scheduled atYou will 1230, I roamed around in the
streets to pass time.&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;It is really a hard job to pass time in Chennai.  There were no parks
or malls in the nearby area.  Since I did not know the city well
enough, I did not want to wander far off from the consulate.&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;After killing nearly two hour, I got into the queue at 1100 hours.
I was allowed into the consulate at 1300 hours.&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Pre-screening of the documents&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;Once you are inside the consulate, you have to wait to have your
passport, forms D156 and D157 verified.  The officers check if you are
missing something.  They are quite efficient.  You have chairs
available once you get inside the consulate.&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;By the time I reached the pre-screening counter, it was already 1430.
Unluckily for me, the photograph on my form was not of the correct
size.  The officer at the counter asked me to get a proper sized
photograph and come back again in an hour.&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;There is a market near the consulate and the shopkeepers there
understand english and hindi.  I asked around and quickly located a
place to have my photograph taken.  It was a seedy place and the
photographer charged me 200 Rs. for four correct sized photograph.  My
guess is that he charged me at least thrice the price I would normally
have paid.&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;I hurried back to the consulate and showed the guards at the front
gate that I had been rescheduled for my interview and I had originally
been called aat 1230.  He kindly allowed me to go in without waiting
in the queue.&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;This time around I did not have a problem in the pre-screening part
and they asked me to go in for my visa interview.&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Visa interview&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;There was quite a crowd waiting for their visa interview.  However,
the queue managment was again good here and no one was complaining.
There were enough chairs around, so waiting was not too much of a
hassle.&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;You first had to get your fingerprint taken and then stand in a queue
to have one of the officers interview you.  I was quite apprehensive
about the interview as I had heard quite a lot of stories about the
randomness of the visa interviewers in rejecting the visas.  However,
I was quite surprised.  The visa interviewers gave perfectly coherent
reasons for the rejection of the visas.  They were direct, but polite
in their rejections.  They asked pertinent questions and I do not
think that hassling the visa interviewees was their aim.&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;When my turn came, I was asked a few question about why I was going to
US and told that my visa has been spproved and I would receive it in
2-3 days &lt;img src=&quot;http://rajshekhar.net/blog/templates/default/img/emoticons/smile.png&quot; alt=&quot;:-)&quot; style=&quot;display: inline; vertical-align: bottom;&quot; class=&quot;emoticon&quot; /&gt; .  I was quite happy and came out of the consulate.  The
process ended at 1700.&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Back to Bangalore&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;My flight was at 2125.  I killed time till 1830 and then took an
autorickshaw to the airport.  He charged me 150 Rs. and dropped me at
the airport by 1915.  I walked inside the airport, found an empty seat
and tried to get some sleep.  Since I had done lot of walking that
day, my feet were killing me.  I took off my shoes too and then tried
to get some more sleep.  Pretty soon the boarding for my flight was
announced.  I got into the the aeroplane, flew back to Bangalore and
was back home by 2300.&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;All in all, it was a tiring experience, but a productive one.&lt;/p&gt;
 
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    <pubDate>Wed, 21 Mar 2007 19:43:58 +0100</pubDate>
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    <title>eight areas of life  that need to be balanced</title>
    <link>http://rajshekhar.net/blog/archives/216-eight-areas-of-life-that-need-to-be-balanced.html</link>
            <category>My take on life</category>
    
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    &lt;p&gt;I am sure I have heard these same divisons some place else, but I am
not sure where.  From what I remember, the speaker told us that
imagine your life to be a circle and allocate each of these areas a
portion of that circle.  The area allocated to each of the areas
should be proportionate to the time and energy you spend in that area.
An ideal secenario would be that you have a circle in which all the
areas are nearly equal.&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;Without much ado, here are the eight areas&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;ul&gt;
&lt;li&gt;Career/Work - In the ideal world, we all love our work. In the real
world, we do not. Find a way to be grateful for your job, and
useful. You will spend a lot of time at work, better to have a
positive experience while there.&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;Creativity - This is where hobbies are important. Perhaps you are
an artist? Find time to create. A great hobby is photography. You
can do it as you walk through your neighborhood. It is also a great
way to meet people, and to share experiences with others through
your photos.&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;Intellectual - This is an area which is very neglected. It is
important that you keep your intellect sharp. One way to do so is
to read the newspaper on a daily basis. Or, dive into classic works
of fiction, or poetry.&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;Health &amp;amp; Fitness - Get in shape and stay in shape. There is no
substitute for a great diet either. These are critical for living a
healthy, balanced life. People who eat right and are in shape have
better attitudes than those who do not. If your body feels better,
you will feel better.&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;Social - You need to spend time with your friends, relaxing and
socializing. It is very important to have an active social life, as
it keeps you connected and involved with the world. Also, having
fun and sharing laughs helps you recharge intellectually and
emotionally. Without an active social life, people tend towards
depression and isolation.&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;Family - This can be sensitive for some people who experienced
difficulties with their parents when they were younger. Your family
can be a great source of comfort and connection, as well being
supportive through difficult times. It is common for people to feel
challenged in their family lives. However, growing through these
challenges forges character and integrity.&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;Companionship &amp;amp; Intimacy - Ultimately, every person deserves a
lasting, meaningful relationship. It can be both nurturing and
challenging. Ultimately, it serves to help us be open to another
person, and understand the nature of intimacy and love. Intimate
relationships are important in any persons development. The result
is a greater sense of ourselves, and a more fulfilling and happy
life. Most of you reading this are probably looking for this.&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;Austerity - Lastly, each of us needs time alone. This is when we
recharge and connect with ourselves, and our purpose. Perhaps this
is when we indulge in our hobbies, or when we practice daily
meditation. Spending time alone helps us reenter the world feeling
refreshed and connected.&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;/ul&gt;

&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.theseductionbible.com/2007/02/15/your-secret-weapon-develop-with-caution/&quot;&gt;Link&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
 
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    <pubDate>Wed, 21 Feb 2007 17:47:55 +0100</pubDate>
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    <title>back from Delhi</title>
    <link>http://rajshekhar.net/blog/archives/207-back-from-Delhi.html</link>
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    &lt;p&gt;I was out of Bangalore (had to go to Delhi) from 12th to 17th Jan and I did not have access to net at that time.  I noticed that Delhi is still an iPod free city and it really is cold there &lt;/p&gt; 
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    <pubDate>Thu, 18 Jan 2007 13:42:50 +0100</pubDate>
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    <title>stuff that sucks</title>
    <link>http://rajshekhar.net/blog/archives/206-stuff-that-sucks.html</link>
            <category>humour</category>
            <category>My take on life</category>
    
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    &lt;p&gt;Small list of stuff everyone thinks is cool, but I did not find them worth the price all the electrons had to pay
&lt;ul&gt;
&lt;li&gt;&lt;em&gt;Second life&lt;/em&gt; - seriously people, what is so great about it that you are paying &lt;a href=&quot;http://rajshekhar.net/blog/archives/138-real-world-rules!.html&quot;&gt;real world&lt;/a&gt; money for virtual stuff.&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;&lt;em&gt;A-list Bloggers&lt;/em&gt; - some of them are a bunch of pretentious idiots. Enough said.&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;&lt;em&gt;Orkut&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;/ul&gt;&lt;/p&gt; 
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    <pubDate>Wed, 10 Jan 2007 12:57:51 +0100</pubDate>
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    <title>thinking big</title>
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            <category>My take on life</category>
    
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    &lt;p&gt;My manager made a very good one-liner today (in context of whether we should concentrate on research or on actual implementation) &lt;blockquote&gt;Think big and implement in small steps.&lt;/blockquote&gt;  &lt;/p&gt; 
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    <pubDate>Tue, 09 Jan 2007 12:29:18 +0100</pubDate>
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    <title>desperate to be noticed ?</title>
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            <category>humour</category>
            <category>My take on life</category>
            <category>work</category>
    
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    &lt;p&gt;Seen on one of the mailing lists that I am on
&lt;blockquote&gt;
I&#039;ve heard it said - and find this to be true in enough cases to be
useful as a rough guide - that men often try to stimulate conversation
by disagreement, while women generally do the opposite (this provides a
highly amusing view of teenagers&#039; conversations involving the apposite
sex, which tend to illustrate this, or something very close to it.) If
so, then the Net often appears to be full of 12-year-old boys, stoned
out of their minds on their brand-new experience with testosterone and
desperate to be noticed.
&lt;/blockquote&gt;
Unluckily ( &lt;img src=&quot;http://rajshekhar.net/blog/templates/default/img/emoticons/wink.png&quot; alt=&quot;;-)&quot; style=&quot;display: inline; vertical-align: bottom;&quot; class=&quot;emoticon&quot; /&gt; ) Yahoo! Bangalore has seen a big influx of &quot;freshers&quot; these days.  Most of them come across as idiots, but I guess it is just their eagerness ( perhaps desperation would be the correct word) to get noticed.
&lt;/p&gt; 
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    <pubDate>Tue, 19 Dec 2006 05:04:18 +0100</pubDate>
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    <title>touched by an angel</title>
    <link>http://rajshekhar.net/blog/archives/191-touched-by-an-angel.html</link>
            <category>My take on life</category>
    
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    &lt;p&gt;I was in a very sour mood while I was driving back from work today.  When I stopped in one of the frequent traffic snarls that adorn the roads of Bangalore, I saw that next to me was an &lt;a href=&quot;http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Image:Autorickshaw.jpg&quot;&gt;autorickshaw&lt;/a&gt; with a small girl and her family.  The small girl reached out and touched the rear view mirror of my bike.  I made my don&#039;t-mess-with-me face at her and she just smiled at me.  My reflex was to smile back at her and my bad mood was promptly broken.  Sometimes I wonder how many of these small opportunities to make someone&#039;s  days better have I have missed.&lt;/p&gt;

 
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    <pubDate>Wed, 29 Nov 2006 19:29:19 +0100</pubDate>
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    <title>emails and IM</title>
    <link>http://rajshekhar.net/blog/archives/188-emails-and-IM.html</link>
            <category>geek stuff</category>
            <category>My take on life</category>
    
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    &lt;p&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://radio.weblogs.com/0121664/2006/11/08.html#a901&quot;&gt;Dina&lt;/a&gt; points to &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.zephoria.org/thoughts/archives/2006/11/07/what_i_mean_whe.html&quot;&gt;&amp;quot;email is dead&amp;quot; in reference to teens&lt;/a&gt; by Danah Boyd&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;blockquote&gt;
&lt;p class=&quot;quoted&quot;&gt;&quot;Now, let&#039;s talk about youth. They have email accounts. They get
homework assignments sent there. Xanga tells them that their friends
have updated their pages. Attachments (a.k.a. digital Netflix/Amazon
packages) get sent there. Companies try to spam them there
(a.k.a. junk mail). Sifting through the crap, they might get a neat
penpal letter or a friend might have sent them something to read
but, by and large, there&#039;s not a lot of emotional investment over
email.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;

&lt;blockquote&gt;
&lt;p class=&quot;quoted&quot;&gt;That said, take away their AIM or MySpace or SMS or whatever their
primary form of asynchronous messaging with their friends is and
they will start twitching and moan about how you&#039;ve ruined their
life. And you have. Because you&#039;ve taken away their access to their
friends, their access to the thing that matters most to them. It&#039;s
like me taking away your access to blogs and email and being forced
to stay at the office just because you showed up late for work.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;

&lt;p&gt;There is a difference that I see in the way IM and emails work.  On an
IM, you get messages from a set of accepted people - who talk about
stuff that (mostly) matters to you.  On the other hand, your email
account is a dropbox for a bunch of uninteresting stuff - mostly spam.
However, if you think about it, email has its advantage too - it can
be archived, encrypted, signed, personalized, sent across networks
(i.e. your gmail.com account can send an email to yahoo.com email id,
but you cannot chat with your &lt;a href=&quot;http://messenger.yahoo.com&quot;&gt;yahoo! messenger&lt;/a&gt; friends from &lt;a href=&quot;http://talk.google.com&quot;&gt;gtalk&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;Maybe something equivalent to your IM-buddy list can be done for
emails too. You have an email account and that accepts emails only
from a &lt;a href=&quot;http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Whitelist&quot;&gt;whitelisted&lt;/a&gt; set of email-ids.  Whenever you get an email from a
new id, you can either add him to the buddy list or you can
&lt;a href=&quot;http://help.yahoo.com/l/us/yahoo/messenger/messenger7/managingim/managingim-25.html&quot;&gt;report the message as a spam and block the email id&lt;/a&gt;. Next step would
be to integrate the notifications of new messages into you own
desktop and an online presence indicator.&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;Just some food for thought &lt;img src=&quot;http://rajshekhar.net/blog/templates/default/img/emoticons/smile.png&quot; alt=&quot;:-)&quot; style=&quot;display: inline; vertical-align: bottom;&quot; class=&quot;emoticon&quot; /&gt; .&lt;/p&gt;
 
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    <author>nospam@example.com (Raj Shekhar)</author>
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    &lt;p&gt;When I moved to Bangalore, my brother and sister came here with me.
However, sometime back both of them got admitted into MBA colleges in
Pune and Mumbai respectively and I have been living alone.  This has
lead to a sort of tv-addiction.  I come back from work and switch on
the tv and &lt;strong&gt;bham!&lt;/strong&gt; two hours have gone past just like that.  Or on a
weekend I take my lunch and sit in front of the tv and &lt;strong&gt;bham!&lt;/strong&gt; it is soon
dinner time.&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;To get out of this groove, I unplugged the cable that brings me cable
television from the TV.  Then I went one step further. I took a bit of
string and the cable to one of the window rods.  Now when I want to
watch the tv, I will have to get up, untie the knot and plug the cable
into the tv.  Since this is too much work, I will not do it &lt;img src=&quot;http://rajshekhar.net/blog/templates/default/img/emoticons/smile.png&quot; alt=&quot;:-)&quot; style=&quot;display: inline; vertical-align: bottom;&quot; class=&quot;emoticon&quot; /&gt; .
However, there are some serials (like &lt;a href=&quot;http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Simpsons&quot;&gt;Simpsons&lt;/a&gt;) for which I would do
that much work.  This will reduce my casual tv surfing to null.&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;It has been two days now and this experiment has been successful till
now.&lt;/p&gt; 
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    <pubDate>Sun, 12 Nov 2006 04:25:18 +0100</pubDate>
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    &lt;p&gt;He-he .. look at
this. &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.thisislondon.co.uk/news/article-23371436-details/British+pensioners+regret+not+having+more+sex%2c+says+poll/article.do&quot;&gt;British pensioners regret not having more sex, says poll&lt;/a&gt;.
&lt;blockquote style= &quot;border:1px dashed #ccc;background-color: #FEFCF5;color:#333;&quot;&gt;
Seven out of 10 people aged 65 and over said they would make
more time to make love if they could have their days again. &lt;br /&gt;
&lt;p class=&quot;verse&quot;&gt;
[snip]&lt;br /&gt;
[snip]&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;/p&gt;
Sex was followed by travelling the world (57 per cent) and changing
professions (43 per cent) as the most popular wishes pensioners had if
they could go back in time.

&lt;p&gt;Other regrets included saving for a pension (40 per cent), standing up
to their boss (33 per cent), marry someone else (21 per cent),
spending more cash on luxuries (19 per cent) and setting up a business
(16 per cent).&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;

&lt;p&gt;You have heard what the more experienced have to say.  Now go out
and have more sex and travel more - leave those angle brackets alone
for now &lt;img src=&quot;http://rajshekhar.net/blog/templates/default/img/emoticons/smile.png&quot; alt=&quot;:-)&quot; style=&quot;display: inline; vertical-align: bottom;&quot; class=&quot;emoticon&quot; /&gt;&lt;/p&gt; 
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    &lt;p&gt;An update on my &lt;a href=&quot;http://rajshekhar.net/blog/archives/177-hiring-and-retaining.html&quot;&gt;hiring and retaining&lt;/a&gt; post.  This discussion was also
happening on the &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.scottberkun.com/forums/pmclinic/&quot;&gt;pmclininc&lt;/a&gt; mailing list.  One of the posters said that
the good managers measure their job satisfaction using this list of
questions&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;
&lt;ul&gt;
&lt;li&gt;Do I know what is expected of me?&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;Do I have the right materials and equipment I need to do my work right?&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;At work, do I have the opportunity to do what I do best every day?&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;In the last seven days, have I received recognition or praise for doing good work?&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;Does my supervisor, or someone at work, seem to care about me as a person?&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;Is there someone at work who encourages my development?&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;At work, do my opinions seem to count?&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;Does the mission/purpose of my company make me feel my job is important?&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;Are my co-workers committed to doing quality work?&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;Do I have a best friend at work?&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;In the last six months, has someone at work talked to me about my progress?&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;This last year, have I had opportunities at work to learn and grow?&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;/ul&gt;
&lt;/p&gt; 
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    <pubDate>Sat, 21 Oct 2006 07:35:53 +0200</pubDate>
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    &lt;p&gt;There has been a thread going on in the &lt;a href=&quot;http://lists.cpsr.org/lists/info/india-gii&quot;&gt;india-gii&lt;/a&gt; list about
&lt;a href=&quot;http://lists.cpsr.org/lists/arc/india-gii/2006-10/msg00037.html&quot;&gt;hiring and retaining talented coders in india&lt;/a&gt;.  Here is the email that
the original poster had posted&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;pre style=&quot;border:1px dashed #ccc;background-color: #FEFCF5;color: #333;&quot;&gt;
Over the past few weeks I&#039;ve met with several people who are all
having the same headaches

&lt;p&gt;1. Hiring talented coders
2. Retaining talented coders&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;The first is usually down to lack of talent (coders directly out of
college just don&#039;t have the &quot;new &quot; skills (for example) in things like
ajax, ruby, but have core knowledge of things like C, and what I call
&quot;old&quot; languages), and also salaries wanted, especially if you are
trying to sell abroad and compete with pricing abroad, i.e brazil,
russia, ukraine offer lower prices these days.  &lt;/pre&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;My thoughts about this&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;pre style=&quot;border:1px dashed #ccc;background-color: #DBE4F2;&quot;&gt;
When hiring freshers, I don&#039;t think you should look for what languages
they know. Instead you should
- try to gauge how much of the fundamentals they know
- if they (freshers) are self-learners

&lt;p&gt;Point 1 can be checked by asking them about sorting/searching
algorithms or networking or process management (basically the topics
which are covered in their operating system course or their data
structures course).&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;Point 2 can be checked by seeing if they have contributed to any free
software project and actually asking them to show their code (it is
after all free software and there is no NDA).  If a fresher has worked
on an open source project, it usually means
- he knows about version control
- he knows about mailing lists
- he can work without much supervision
- he can work with a distributed team
- and most importantly, he can work with a team
&lt;/pre&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;In the email, the original poster had also mentioned this point
&lt;pre style=&quot;border:1px dashed #ccc;background-color: #FEFCF5;color: #333;&quot;&gt;

the big guns (tcs, infosys etc) hire like 10K users in a go, and its
seems that the prospects of getting a good wife/husband are directly
linked to the name of the company on the CV (again this maybe biased,
but am seeing it more and more).
&lt;/pre&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;WTF!! ROTFL!! &lt;img src=&quot;http://rajshekhar.net/blog/templates/default/img/emoticons/smile.png&quot; alt=&quot;:-)&quot; style=&quot;display: inline; vertical-align: bottom;&quot; class=&quot;emoticon&quot; /&gt;&lt;/p&gt; 
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    <pubDate>Fri, 20 Oct 2006 12:06:54 +0200</pubDate>
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    <title>Yahoo Forges Local News Offering with CBS</title>
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    &lt;p&gt;&lt;a href=&#039;http://biz.yahoo.com/indie/061016/348_id.html?.v=1&#039;&gt;Yahoo Forges Local News Offering with CBS&lt;/a&gt;.  I am in Yahoo! Media Operations and it is hard for me to tell people exactly what I work on. However, I was a part of the team that made the news possible. Nice work! &lt;img src=&quot;http://rajshekhar.net/blog/templates/default/img/emoticons/smile.png&quot; alt=&quot;:-)&quot; style=&quot;display: inline; vertical-align: bottom;&quot; class=&quot;emoticon&quot; /&gt; &lt;/p&gt; 
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    <pubDate>Tue, 17 Oct 2006 12:00:36 +0200</pubDate>
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